How do you handle illness and sex. My spouse has had issues for several months. They seem to go away but we have sex and they seem to come back. She's been to several docs and will see a specialist soon. I try to not show impacted because her long term health is most important but I also am not having my needs taken care of. Any suggestions?
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I'm assuming that intercourse is what is off the table currently and I'm wondering how you guys feel about other options. Is there terrible pain? Tiredness? Bleeding? Discharge? The kind of illness will affect any suggestions but there are lots of ways to give and have orgasms.
Lie next to each other and use toys? A strong, wand vibrator works great on men and women. Talk dirty to each other while masturbating? Snuggle and add extra stimulation?
Outercourse? Drying humping? Penis between thighs, breasts, etc.
Manual stimulation for both?